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When straight couples discussed communication work related to sex, they did not emphasize duty and sometimes conveyed discordant feelings about sex and undertaking work to change their sex lives. Diane (straight) found herself “way more interested” in sex in midlife, but her husband Gary felt less interested in sex and related communication. Gary said: a b Bonnie S. Fisher; Steven P. Lab (2010). Encyclopedia of Gender and Society, Volume 1. SAGE. p.312. ISBN 978-1412960472 . Retrieved August 19, 2014. People assign meaning to sex in light of their social positions. Although cultural norms of gender and sexuality fluctuate in relation to ever-changing social and institutional discourses and performances (see Connell, 2005; Segal, 1990), the “sexual double standard” remains a pervasive and durable gender schema ( Crawford & Popp, 2003). Such double standards are dynamic sets of social rules, norms, and beliefs that differ for men and women but are consistently linked to notions of agentic heterosexual male subjects and passive female objects whose purpose is to arouse the male sexual response (see also Connell & Messerschmidt, 2005). Findings that link sexual activity and satisfaction to relationship satisfaction and stability must be examined with an eye toward how satisfaction is embedded in larger gendered schemas of sex and marriage. Two primary yet competing gendered and sexual norms typically found in scientific and popular discourse posit that (a) consistent and frequent sexual activity is the measure of a successful marriage (see Giddens, 1992), but (b) sex inevitably declines in marriage over time (see Call et al., 1995). Both lesbian and straight women are exposed to these broad sexual marriage norms, but their divergent social positions suggest that these norms may shape their interpretations of sexual experiences in different ways. LBQ+ women face sexual harassment, violence and threats by male colleagues at work, as well as discrimination in hiring practices, and widespread economic inequality. I don’t think it’s a problem… we still sleep together, we’re still in the same bed, we still snuggle, and we’re still, you know, intimate, it’s just not necessarily as active as it was when we were in our twenties…it was constant.

In these ways, lesbian couples emphasized that sex must be maintained through “working on it,” typically through intensive communication, projects of bodily change, and planning. The Encyclopedia of Victimology and Crime Prevention states, "For several methodological reasons– nonrandom sampling procedures and self-selection factors, among others– it is not possible to assess the extent of same-sex domestic violence. Studies on abuse between gay male or lesbian partners usually rely on small convenience samples such as lesbian or gay male members of an association." [7] Some sources state that gay and lesbian couples experience domestic violence at the same frequency as heterosexual couples, [8] while other sources state domestic violence among gay, lesbian, and bisexual individuals might be higher than that among heterosexual individuals, that gay, lesbian, and bisexual individuals are less likely to report domestic violence that has occurred in their intimate relationships than heterosexual couples are, or that lesbian couples experience domestic violence less than heterosexual couples do. [9] By contrast, some researchers commonly assume that lesbian couples experience domestic violence at the same rate as heterosexual couples, and have been more cautious when reporting domestic violence among gay male couples. [7] Instead of seeking outside support, lesbians reported undertaking additional intra- and interpersonal efforts to improve sex, such as bodily projects related to weight loss and scheduling sex. For example, Pamela (lesbian), who attributed her diminished interest in sex largely to weight gain, framed the difficulty in their sex life as something she needed to figure out, work on, and fix:Dependency in lesbian relationships is also a result of female-specific socialization. [15] Since women have been socialized for "togetherness" and cooperative living, women often struggle with balancing social life and being alone. A study found that lesbians are more likely to spend free time at home than homosexual men are. [15] In lesbian relationships, women often find it difficult to spend time apart because they feel pressured to take care of one another. Women may assume that spending time away from their partner would make them upset or angry. Without proper communication, improper management of time may lead to unhealthy discourse within a relationship, and partner equality remains difficult to maintain. [15]

Straight couples often talked about seeking help from doctors or counselors to increase or maintain sex. For example, Dean said that he had taken medicine after complications from diabetes inhibited his “ability to perform,” but to no avail. He sought continued advice from his doctor, even though “He’s tried all kinds of ideas, and they don’t work, they just don’t work.” Lesbians, however, did not typically bring up diminished sex and sexuality with their health professionals; they said that when they did, their providers’ responded dismissively. As Julie said, Yet, as a community, we rarely talk about how sexual violence affects us or what our community’s unique needs are when it comes to preventing sexual assault and supporting and caring for survivors of sexual violence. Dzara K (2010). Assessing the effect of marital sexuality on marital disruption. Social Science Research, 39( 5), 715–724. 10.1016/j.ssresearch.2010.06.003 [ CrossRef] [ Google Scholar]The issue of domestic violence among lesbians has become a serious social concern, [4] but the topic has often been ignored, both in academic analyses and in the establishment of social services for battered women. [5] The CDC has stated that 43.8% of lesbian women reported experiencing physical violence, stalking, or rape by their partners. The study notes that, out of those 43.8%, two thirds (67.4%) reported exclusively female perpetrators. The other third reported at least one perpetrator being male, however the study made no distinction between victims who experienced violence from male perpetrators only and those who reported both male and female perpetrators. Similarly, 61.1% of bisexual women reported physical violence, stalking, or rape by their partners in the same study with 89.5% reporting at least one perpetrator being male. In contrast, 35% of heterosexual women reported having been victim of intimate partner violence, with 98.7% of them reporting male perpetrators exclusively. [6] The 2015 U.S. Transgender Survey found that 47% of transgender people are sexually assaulted at some point in their lifetime. Unlike Colleen, Debbie reported stress related to sex, despite reframing her marriage as beyond the norm. Debbie also framed norms as contributing to distress: Domestic violence in lesbian relationships happens for many reasons. Domestic violence can occur due to control. Violence is most frequently employed as a tactic for achieving interpersonal power or control over their partner. [5] Also perceived loss of power or control may also lead to increased violence within the relationship. The alienation and isolation imposed by internalized and external oppression may construct loss of control, and the need to reclaim it becomes the central concern for lesbians. Lesbians may be denied control over numerous aspects of their lives. [22] However, if she remains in the closet, she is also denied control, subjected to continuous self-monitoring, and forced to deal with stress so that she could hide her identity and her intimate relationship from the eyes of others. The perpetrator of violence in an intimate relationship can also threaten their partner to abduct their children if only one has legal custody of their children. [22] On the contrary, there have also been cases of lesbians and lesbian couples that become guardian ad litems and households that have been licensed to provide temporary foster care for children that are vulnerable to domestic violence. [22] Power and control take advantage the most intimate parts of lesbian relationships, including sex life and the individual agency of the victim in the relationship. [22] Dependency and self-esteem factors [ edit ] Liliya: Bride napping and forced marriages are common practices in Kyrgyzstan. And my story is not unique, unfortunately. Since I was a kid, I was dreaming to travel all over the world. And when I was 18, I wanted to move out from the house. But my mama always said you will leave this house with a husband. Or after my death. So I have to get marriage. I kept thinking if I tried hard enough I would probably like staying with a man But it was terrible. It was torture to share a bed with a person you don't really like.

In some cases, the lesbian community can dismiss cases of domestic violence in lesbian relationships or shame victims of domestic violence. [22] This contributes to low self-esteem, feelings of powerlessness, denial of group membership, and difficulty being in committed and trusting relationships. These negative feelings are then acted out in the form of lesbian battering. Also women fear that they might suffer from isolation, risk of losing their job, housing or family as consequences to homophobia and internalized homophobia. [1] A woman who abuses her female partner can use homophobic control as a method of psychological abuse, which further isolates the victim. [4] For example, an abuser may out her partner without permission by revealing her sexual orientation to others, including relatives, employers, and landlords, and in child custody cases. This form of abuse could result in a variety of negative consequences for the victim, such as being shunned by family members and the loss of children, a job, and housing. In fearing isolation due to homophobia, lesbians also experience the phenomenon of living in the "second closet", or that they must keep both their sexualities and experiences with domestic violence hidden from others due to fear of negative repercussions. [22] These homophobic roots also integrate themselves into how lesbians raise their children. [23] Past experiences with domestic violence and abuse [ edit ] Meanwhile, a junky inmate Stokes (Roberta Collins) and other prisoners plot against Carol, with the hopes of obtaining more drugs or a sooner release. Eventually, Carol and a few other convict allies plot to escape, but have to be careful of the local poachers that are paid to hunt and kill escapees. Ganong K, & Larson E (2011). Intimacy and belonging: The association between sexual activity and depression among older adults. Society and Mental Health, 1( 3), 153–172. 10.1177/2156869311431612 [ CrossRef] [ Google Scholar]Fredriksen KI (1999). Family caregiving responsibilities among lesbians and gay men. Social Work, 44( 2), 142–155. [ PubMed] [ Google Scholar] In an effort to overcome the denial of domestic violence in lesbian relationships, advocates for abused women often concentrate on similarities between homosexual and heterosexual domestic violence. The main goal of activists is to legitimize lesbian domestic violence as real abuse and validate the experience of its victims. [5] Other factors of unreliability [ edit ] a b c d West, Carolyn M. (March 2002). "Lesbian intimate partner violence: prevalence and dynamics". Journal of Lesbian Studies. 6 (1): 121–127. doi: 10.1300/J155v06n01_11. PMID 24803054. S2CID 30945308. Segal L (1990). Slow motion: Changing masculinities, changing men. London: Virago. [ Google Scholar]

The reactionary Cold War environment, ever on the hunt for enemies within, pointed to prison lesbianism as the result of liberals being “soft on perversion, as on communism.” As early as the 1930s, Hollywood made women in prison films as melodramas with minimal action and means to portray the pathway to a righteous life with titles such as “Ladies They Talk About” and “Hold Your Man”. Bimbi, David S.; Palmadessa, Nancy A.; Parsons, Jeffrey T. (2008). "Substance use and domestic violence among urban gays, lesbians and bisexuals". Journal of LGBT Health Research. 3 (2): 1–7. doi: 10.1300/J463v03n02_01. PMID 19835036. Unfortunately, the conditions don’t improve, so she and two others make a break for it. However, their escape doesn’t go well and they are being pursued by not just by the guards, but also by male prisoners who have be deprived of women. Nearly half (48 percent) of bisexual women who are rape survivors experienced their first rape between ages 11 and 17.Sexual satisfaction is positively associated with marital quality, and high levels of marital quality, in turn, predict marital stability ( Yeh et al., 2006). Conversely, sexual dissatisfaction contributes to marital instability; discrepancies between one’s desire for sex and reported frequency of sex with one’s spouse predict lower levels of relationship satisfaction and perceptions of stability as well as higher levels of marital conflict and disruption ( Brezsnyak & Whisman, 2004; Dzara, 2010; Willoughby, Farero, & Busby, 2014). Although frequency of sex tends to decline with age, Lindau et al. (2007) report that the majority of adults aged 57 to 74 believe that sexuality is an important part of life. For married midlife straight couples, relationship duration, poor health, and increased caregiving responsibilities are all associated with diminished sexual frequency or satisfaction ( Call, Sprecher, & Schwartz, 1995; DeLamater & Sill, 2005; Gott & Hinchliff, 2003; Karraker, DeLamater, & Schwartz, 2011; Lindau et al., 2007). Moreover, the experience of midlife events and sexuality seems to unfold differently for men and women in straight marriages (see DeLamater & Sill, 2005; Karraker et al., 2011; Karraker & Latham, 2015). For example, increased caregiving responsibilities seem to have more deleterious effects on overall marital quality (measures of which include sexual satisfaction) for straight women than for straight men ( Bookwala, 2009). Lesbians who reported both stress and work emphasized a duty to maintain sexual relationships, and their actions reflected this value. As Pamela (lesbian) said, “I know I need to be better [at wanting sex] because it’s such a…it is a part of our relationship… I know it’s some-thing I need to figure out. I’ve got to get better, you know.” Linda (lesbian) said, “We tend to let [sex] go, and we both know that we shouldn’t We really feel like we need to attend to [sex] better than we do”—a sentiment echoed by her wife, Melissa, who said, “I mean, we just don’t take time for it when we should.” Patricia (lesbian) referred to the presence of sex in terms of success: When we think about LGBT rights, we don’t often think about women’s rights to land and inheritance, girls’ access to education, or freedom of movement. JSTOR is part of ITHAKA, a not-for-profit organization helping the academic community use digital technologies to preserve the scholarly record and to advance research and teaching in sustainable ways.

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