First Time Swingers (Books 1 - 4): Four Hot Wife Swapping Swingers Tales (Hot Swingers and Wife Swapping Tales)

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She was a good girl. She didn’t want to cheat on her husband and that’s what drew me to her. She kept turning me down, even though I could tell she was tempted. Then, one day, she let me rest a hand on her leg. Then inch it up higher. And higher. And pretty soon she was coming with only my fingertips.” — Tyler, 27 How it impacted her relationship:“It’s really helped strengthen our relationship. Not all experiences were 100 percent pleasurable, so we made an effort to have those conversations and keep the lines of communication open. When you talk about [swinging] it makes it so much easier to discuss other issues in the relationship.” If a time comes that sex with another person is something I’m curious about, it’ll be time to talk to my partner, not ditch them and run.

We love visiting strip clubs together (who doesn’t love a gorgeous woman dancing around?) so we knew we’d be comfortable with nudity, but laid out a few ground rules before we went. While my partner relaxed by the pool getting to know a new lady friend, I ran into a man who asked to join me in my room for some playtime. Even before dinner, I received several more requests from men, women, and couples to play. Unfortunately, I didn’t have enough time, energy, or flesh to make it all happen. We have now been married for a little over 7 years, but about 2 years ago my husband started complaining about our sex life getting boring. I was happy with our routine, but he seemed to feel he was missing out on something. I wanted him to feel as complete as I did, so I listened to what he wanted, and I agreed to try to do a little more to spice it up.

So, what are sex parties actually like?

After a morning of topless photos on the beach, we invited a friend to our room for a threesome. She had suggestively asked to help celebrate my husband’s birthday, and he was more than happy to unwrap this gift. Meanwhile in the two prison cells, one of which has a sex swing, two couples are having sex as the whole room watches. For the first time on the cruise, I was starting to feel worn out – in the most satisfying way, of course. Warning: As you’d expect, this week’s diary features some explicit details about sex, so it’s definitely NSFW. Monday In a panic, I threw a blanket — or something — over my girlfriend, grabbed my pants and tried to pull them on as I headed for the door to keep it from opening. I got to the door with my pants just above my knees when the door opened,” he recalls. “Standing in the hall was this sweet young freshman girl with her parents bringing her to her new dorm room! The looks on their faces were priceless. I asked them to give us a few minutes — I mean, what choice did they have?” 3. Whipped cream surprise

Sunday is fun day. After a sleep in, we lie in bed with coffee and rehash the evening, which usually ends leads to another romp. Around 2am, I find myself on a sofa with Cassandra on the top floor, discussing the evening’s events with the club’s manager. On the sofa next to us, two ladies have switched partners and are giving the men blowjobs. Pip and I got in a bonus date as we headed to the ER together. The nurses were bemused by our story and even pushed our beds together to hold hands as we received the many painful injections — so romantic, right?John, who is ironically a marriage, relationship and sexual coach, shares: “My wife and I went out with some friends for bowling and beer. We both had a little too much to drink.” However, that didn’t stop him from initiating intercourse with his wife that night. “I was happily pumping away with a full bladder. I began to feel the urge to ejaculate (or so I thought in my half drunken stupor). The problem was that I was peeing instead of ejaculating.” 5. Caught in the act

I slept with a bride on her wedding night. But I slept with the groom too. It was the weirdest (yet hottest) threesome.” — Jacob, 28 In Swinging, full swap is sexwith another couple where both couples swappartners, such as the guy from one couple with the girl from the other couple and vice-versa. This is often done in the same room but applies also when separate rooms are involved. Later, we attended a masturbation workshop, which would be better described as a meditation on self-pleasure. Props like whips and paddles decorated the rooms, and there were attachments against some walls to tie someone up with. How did I get here? When I was 25 I was cheated on. I’d always been a very jealous person, particularly in relationships. I’d go snooping through my partner’s cupboards and scroll through their phone looking for things that I didn’t want to find, but found anyway. I hated being this type of person and when my relationship broke down, I swore to myself that I’d never let sex be the thing that ended a relationship. It seemed that the universe agreed, and around time I decided to keep sex and emotions separate, I was introduced to the deliciously freeing world of swinging.In fact, plenty of our fellow cruisers don’t even identify as swingers or non-monogamous. They just appreciate the opportunity to take a luxury vacation with non-judgmental, sex-positive people who hold space for them. By now, I was ready to follow up with the wildlife expert, wanting these bats out of my house. On very little sleep, thoroughly spooked, and totally naked, I zipped downstairs to grab Ron’s phone number off the table. As I made it to the kitchen, I was absolutely SHOOK as the bat from the night before flew right towards my head. We were having sex in the dark & I went to get on top but misjudged how close we were to the edge of the bed.

MORE : 'It helps to be blindfolded, let's put it that way': We find out what really goes on at sex clubs I wound up marrying her sister 3 years ago. They show some resemblance but are still very different looking. My relationship with her is very similar to a mother in law. Although she is only 33, she has 4 kids and acts much older than her age. We get along but have never had a friend type of relationship because of her generally serious demeanor. Over the years I've spent many parties, BBQs, etc getting long glimpses of her incredible feet. I got incredibly horny one day when she brought up the subject of her having the nicest feet in the family. She has said it many times since, which is somewhat out of character for her. But I never had any sort of opening to realistically touch them, etc

In addition to hosting swinger parties and travel groups, Carol and David are working on a passion project as executive producers and writers of the screen play, SEX LOVE AND JEALOUSY, a sexy romantic comedy based on their real-life swinger experiences. Through meeting and exploring sex with other couples, learning new peoples’ bodies and preferences can help you become more aware of your own and your partner’s as a result, says Morse. That self-awareness piece (and knowledge of your partner) is key here. If either of you tend to experience jealousy intensely, then swinging could potentially be a challenge for your relationship, according to Morse. Once you’ve established what jealousy looks like or doesn’t look like for you as a couple, you can move on to thinking about swinging more seriously. “From there, you and your partner may find you even strengthen your communication and trust, and build an even more solid foundation upon which to have sexy adventures,” says Morse. Whether they’ve wound up here for companionship, or to watch their partner ‘blossom into a more confident and secure human being’, one thing is for certain; the swinging lifestyle has brought them closer together as wives, husbands, and friends.