His Needs, Her Needs: Building an Affair-Proof Marriage

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However, it is possible to have an affair that involves only lovemaking or only the feeling of love toward someone outside of marriage. When the wife wants more sex but is turned away by the husband, she needs to get creative in finding out what is causing his sexual shyness.

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This mutual desire to bring each other happiness at all costs builds an affair into one of the most satisfying and intimate relationships either of you have ever known. Any hug, kiss, or physical touch that is sexual in nature, or intended to lead to sex, is not affection. At first you talk about various topics of interest, but over time you begin to share personal problems with each other. Others include endlessly trying to please their partner instead of listening to them, miscommunication, and constant fighting. He is like a donkey between two bales of hay, but instead of starving to death because he cannot decide which bale to choose, he tries to nibble on both!

I describe it simply in Harley’s First Corollary: The typical wife doesn’t understand her husband’s deep need for sex any more than the typical husband understands his wife’s deep need for affection. He can be creative in when and how he gives affection, and she can get creative in the bedroom, or wherever.

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Introduction The purpose of this book is to teach you how to discover, and then learn to meet, each other’s most important emotional needs. Interestingly enough, John and Mary do not accumulate points at the rate they did before the marriage, mainly because they share a much wider variety of experiences than they had while dating. But Ted’s failure to provide affection combined with Paula’s very low need for admiration made her feel particularly uncared for when he focused most of his attention on her physical attributes. Once there is resentment, lack of connection, and I assume a loss of trust, it is a long hard journey to gain them back.

account in her husband’s Love Bank takes a huge dip and there is an understanding woman waiting in the wings down at hubby’s office. In a lab experiment, it might be demonstrated by giving a person a violent shock when showing them a picture of a city, and giving them a comforting massage when showing them a picture of mountains. Husbands’ and wives’ needs are so strong that when they’re not met in marriage, people are tempted to go outside marriage to satisfy them. Instead, it means learning how to enjoy meeting emotional needs that are low on your list of priorities. The more your partner did that helped you feel love, appreciation, admiration, respect, and so on, all were the result of love unit deposits.

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Once you know what you need, it will be easier to see how your partner needs or wants to be treated.I believe every marriage should have an atmosphere that says, “I really care about you and I know you care about me. That’s why it’s always important for both parties to communicate openly and honestly about what they need from the other person. Many husbands remember the passionate encounters of their courting days and want to know, “Why doesn’t she get turned on the way she did before we were married? It is currently at about 50 percent and climbing because fewer and fewer people are willing to commit themselves to one partner for life.